For this post I’ll share some commonplace practices that can, like screen-time, contribute to dysregulation in children. The first issue we see primarily in tweens and teens, while the second two apply to younger kids.
Here are 3 non-screen technology sources that can detune the nervous system, leading to tantrums, rages, depression, sleep disturbance, and/or anxiety:
Ear buds– screen addiction specialists are increasingly recommending to ban use of ear buds during treatment. I discovered the dysregulating effect of headphones years ago with a particularly difficult patient who was screen fasting but not improving; she finally “reset” once we got rid of the headphones. (We still allowed music via speaker.) Ear buds are even worse than headphones- they contribute to isolation and overstimulation, and because they’re wireless they’re often used non-stop. They also use bluetooth which emit EMF and are literally sitting next your child’s brain. The link to depression is also supported by research.
Remote control cars- I think of these as playing a video game but without the screen. They are highly arousing, fast paced, and kids are oten watching them without moving much. In contrast to ear buds, not every kid will have side effects from these, but for everyone I recommend avoiding use during the Reset/screen-fasting. Afterwards, assuming the child is no longer dysregulated, you can try them occasionally but mitigate their impact by doing it in a big park and having the kids take turns driving and chasing them.
Toys with buttons, sounds and/or lights – These are hard to get away from and even if you don’t buy them, some well-meaning family member will! Do not fall for the “teaches kids cause-and-effect” wording on the packaging. Cause and effect is innate, it does not need to be taught. And what it does teach is that having fun needs to be immediately rewarding and overstimulating! Toys should stimulate creativity, not entertain. Be especially mindful of these toys if your has ADHD, ASD, or any delays. They’ll undermine all your other hard work!
The common thread we see here is artificial and intense stimulation. For evolutionary reasons the brain is attracted to stimulating things, but mother nature never intended it to be able to tolerate unnatural stimulation, especially over long periods. A good rule of thumb is that anything that uses electricity – plug in or battery- can potentially dysregulate and won’t brain-build as optimally as natural play.
One of the best parts is that you can see a video of a family who did the Reset screen fasting protocol (and ended up remaining screen-free afterward, by the way!) . It’s powerful testimony.
Melanie Hempe’s talk is also super important, particularly regarding Dr Gabor Mate’s work on how parents should matter more than peers. It’s compelling and she’s an engaging speaker.
The ASD brain is uniquely vulnerable to the effects of screen time.
Does screen time make ASD worse? Functional, physiological, and social factors that make special brains more vulnerable
A growing body of research links autism and autism-related symptoms with higher amounts of electronics’ use. In fact, children with autism spectrum disorders (ASD) are uniquely vulnerable to various brain-related impacts of screen time, yet tend to be high users. These electronic “side effects” include hyperarousal and dysregulation—what I call Electronic Screen Syndrome—as well as technology addiction, to video games, internet use, video viewing (think YouTube, TikTok, cartoons), use of smartphones and social media, and so on. Parents of children with ASD or special needs also tend to lean on devices more than with typcially developing kids, to control behavior, take a break, or get things done.
But why the concern? Because a brain with autism has inherent characteristics that screen time exacerbates. In truth, these impacts in occur in all of us, but children with autism will be both more prone to experiencing negative effects and less able to recover from them; their brains are more sensitive and less resilient.
As a framework for understanding these vulnerabilities, it’s helpful to know that screen time—particularly the interactive kind—acts like a stimulant, not unlike caffeine, amphetamines, or cocaine. Also important is children with autism are often sensitive to stimulants of all kinds, whether pharmaceutical or electronic. For example, children with autism and attention issues often can’t tolerate prescribed stimulants (eg Ritalin, Concerta, Adderall, Vyvanse), a standard treatment for ADD/ADHD. Stimulants tend to make children with autism irritable, weepy, over-focused, more obsessive-compulsive, and unable to sleep. Stimulants – including screen time – can also exacerbate tics, self-injurious behaviors, aggression, skin picking, and sensory issues.
Meanwhile, in families with special needs children, there exist additional social and emotional factors that contribute to technology overuse. First, families are often dealing with highly disruptive behaviors that are quieted—at least in the short term—by handing the child a device. Second, parents are told that “playing video games is ‘normal.’ It’s something your son can do with other kids.” Third, parents are encouraged to introduce technology early and often—especially if “he’s good at computers.” Fourth, in-home and school behavior therapists often use video games, ipads, phones or specific apps as reinforcers: “It’s the only thing that works with her!” And lastly, parents and clinicians are routinely encouraged to try unproven screen-based software claiming to reduce autistic behaviors or to improve social, communication or reading skills.
Needless to say, education in this arena is sorely needed.
11 reasons children with autism are extra vulnerable to screen time effects and tech addiction
1. Children with autism tend to have low melatonin and sleep disturbances [1] and screen time suppresses melatonin and disrupts sleep. [2] Aside from regulating sleep and the body clock, melatonin also helps modulate hormones and brain chemistry, balances the immune system, and keeps inflammation at bay.
2. Children with autism are prone to arousal regulation issues, manifesting in an exaggerated stress response, emotional dysregulation, or a tendency to be over or under-stimulated[3]; screen time increases acute and chronic stress, induces hyperarousal, causes emotional dysregulation, and produces overstimulation. [4]
3. Autism is associated with inflammation of the nervous system [5] and screen time may increase inflammation by a variety of mechanisms including increased stress hormones, suppressed melatonin, and non-restorative sleep. [6] Light-at-night from screens also suppresses REM sleep, a phase during which the brain “cleans house.” [7]
4. The autistic brain tends to be underconnected—less integrated and more compartmentalized [8]—and screen time hinders whole-brain integration and healthy development of the frontal lobe.[9] In fact, in tech addiction brain scan studies reveal reduced connectivity (via reduced white matter) and atrophy of gray matter in the frontal lobe. [10]
5. Children with autism have social and communication deficits, such as impaired eye contact, difficulty reading facial expressions and body language, low empathy, and impaired communication [11]; screen time hinders development of these exact same skills—even in children and teens who don’t have autism. [12] Screen time appears to directly compete with social rewards, including eye contact—a factor essential for brain development. [13] Lastly, screen viewing and even background TV has been shown to delay language acquisition. [14]
6. Children with autism are prone to anxiety [15]—including obsessive-compulsive traits, social anxiety—and screen time is associated with increased risk for OCD and social anxiety [16] while contributing to high arousal and poor coping skills. [17] Additionally, anxiety in autism has been linked to abnormalities in serotonin synthesis and amygdala activity [18] and both serotonin regulation and amygdala changes have been implicated in screen time. [19]
7. Children with autism frequently have sensory and motor integration issues [20] as well as tics; screen time has been linked to sensori-motor delays and worsening of sensory processing [21], and can precipitate or worsen vocal and motor tics due to dopamine release.
8. Individuals with autism are typically highly attracted to screen-based technology and are not only at increased risk for developing video game and other technology addictions, but are more likely to exhibit symptoms with smaller amounts of exposure. [22] Male teens and young adults with ASD are also at high risk for porn addiction, due to a combination of social deficits, isolation, and excessive computer time, and may develop romantic delusions or obsessions fueled by being accustomed to immediate gratification and a lack of practicing in the real world. At the same time, dopamine released by screen interaction reinforces these obsessive “loops.”
9. Children with autism tend to have a fragile attention system, poor executive functioning, and “reduced bandwidth” when processing information [23]; screen time likewise fractures attention, depletes mental reserves, and impairs executive functioning. [24]
10. Children with autism may be more sensitive to EMFs (electromagnetic fields) emitted from wireless communications (e.g. WiFi and cell phone frequencies) as well as from the electronic devices themselves. [25] At the cellular, molecular, and atomic level, the pathology seen in autism mirrors the effects demonstrated in research on the biological impacts of EMFs. Heightened sensitivity to EMFs may be due to (and may worsen) immune abnormalities and problems with barrier integrity in the gut and/or the brain.
11. Children with autism are at higher risk for psychiatric disorders of all kinds, including mood and anxiety disorders, ADHD, tics and psychosis. [26] Likewise, higher amounts of total screen time are associated with higher levels of psychiatric disturbances, including mood and anxiety disorders, ADHD, tics and psychosis. [27] Regarding psychosis, young people with ASD who engage in daily screen time may experience hallucinations, paranoia, dissociation, and loss of reality-testing. More often than not, however, these scary symptoms resolve or greatly diminish once devices are removed and don’t require antipsychotic medication.
An informed approach to address device use and optimize the ASD brain
In addition to the above, screen time replaces the very things we know to be critical to brain development: bonding, movement, eye contact, face-to-face verbal interactions, loving touch, exercise, free play, and exposure to nature and the outdoors. Reduced exposure to these factors negatively impact brain integration, IQ, and resilience in all children. This also means that parental use of devices, which diminishes eye contact, speech, and face to face communication, contributes to this risk.
In my own experience in working with children and adults with autism, screen time can precipitate regression (loss of language or of social or adaptive living skills), exacerbate repetitive behaviors, further restrict interests, and trigger aggressive and self-injurious behaviors. I’ve even seen regression occur when a communication device is introduced, often when the parents are told to encourage “play” on the device so the child can “get used to it.” The proliferation of the iPad and smartphones has produced more problems and setbacks in my practice than any other single factor.
As stressful and devastating as these experiences can be, so can methodical elimination of screens be exciting and inspiring. Being screen-free can enhance eye contact and language, increase flexibility in thinking and behavior, expand interests, improve emotional regulation and ability to stay on task, induce more restorative sleep, and reduce anxiety and meltdowns.
Because the idea of eliminating screens can seem overwhelming, I typically recommend parents do a four week “electronic fast” (aka screen fast or tech fast) as an experiment so they can get a taste of what the intervention can do. Families track two to three problematic areas to provide objective evidence, and are encouraged to document behaviors (such as screen time tantrums and how the child plays). Even a few short weeks can produce improvements that can be significant enough for the family to decide to continue with screen elimination, in which case the benefits will continue to build on one another.
Will the child still have autism? Yes, but it’s practically guaranteed that they will feel, focus, sleep, behave, and function better. And intriguingly, anecdotal evidence suggests this simple intervention may be powerful enough to prevent, arrest or in some cases even reverse the autism process if caught early enough; pilot studies testing this intervention more formally are forthcoming. (Case studies illustrating these phenomena will be the subject of a future post.)
When parents really grasp the science of what happens in the brain when children interact with screen devices—and understand how these things specifically impact autism—they are much better able to restrict screens appropriately and are less swayed by social pressures. They “see” how screen time translates into certain symptoms in their child, they prioritize brain-health over being tech-savvy, and appreciate that every minute spent on a screen is a tradeoff.
This article was adapted from a post originally published on Dr Dunckley’s Mental Wealth blog on PsychologyToday.com
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Could your child be overstimulated from too much screen time? Take this quiz to find out
*Originally posted on Dr dunckley’s Mental Wealth blog on Psychology Today.
How much screen time is “too much”? How does one know? Blanket guidelines, such as those provided by the American Academy of Pediatrics, do not address individual needs and sensitivities. This quiz can help determine whether your child may be experiencing screen time impacts – aka “digital side effects”- from using electronic devices, which can occur even when a child has limited (but regular) screen use.
Recognizing Electronic Screen Syndrome
Thankfully, there is now a growing awareness regarding technology addiction. But well before addiction sets in, a child’s sensitive nervous system can become overstimulated and hyperaroused from moderate but regular amounts of screen time. This causes the brain to be in a state of chronic stress and effectively short circuits the frontal lobe, creating a host of symptoms that mimic or exacerbate mental health, learning, and behavioral disorders.
The first step in addressing this state — what I call Electronic Screen Syndrome (ESS) — is recognizing the signs.
This is important because traditionally when experts discuss red flags for problematic screen time, they focus on addictive behaviors, many of which are readily apparent. In contrast, this quiz is designed to help parents see the not-so-obvious ways in which screen time might be impacting a child’s or teen’s behavior in a negative way.
Electronic Screen Syndrome Quiz:
Place a checkmark next to each question that applies to your child.
Does your child seem revved up much of the time?
Does your child have meltdowns over minor frustrations?
Does your child have full-blown rages?
Has your child become increasingly oppositional, defiant, or disorganized?
Does your child become irritable when told it’s time to stop playing video games or to get off the computer?
Do you ever notice your child’s pupils are dilated after using electronics?
Does your child have a hard time making eye contact after screen time or in general?
Would you describe your child as being attracted to screens “like a moth to a flame”?
Do you ever feel your child is not as happy as he or she should be or is not enjoying activities as much as he or she used to?
Does your child have trouble making or keeping friends because of immature behavior?
Do you worry that your child’s interests have narrowed recently, or that interests mostly revolve around screens? Do you feel his or her thirst for knowledge and natural curiosity has been dampened?
Are your child’s grades falling, or is he or she not performing academically up to his or her potential — and no one is certain why?
Have teachers, pediatricians, or therapists suggested your child might have bipolar disorder, depression, ADHD, an anxiety disorder, or even psychosis, and there’s no family history of the disorder?
Have multiple practitioners given your child differing or conflicting diagnoses? Have you been told your child needs medication, but this doesn’t feel right to you?
Does your child have a preexisting condition, like autism or ADHD, whose symptoms seem to get worse after screen time?
Does your child seem “wired and tired” — exhausted but can’t sleep, or sleeps but doesn’t feel rested?
Does your child seem unmotivated and have poor attention to detail?
Would you describe your child as being stressed, despite few identifiable stressors?
Is your child receiving services in school that don’t seem to be helping?
Do you and your child argue over screens (limits, timing, content, activities, getting a new device, etc.) on a regular basis?
Does your child lie about screen use, “cheat” when on restriction, or take their device to bed with them?
Is your child a “sore loser” or hyper-competitive when playing games or sports, to the point where it affects peer relationships or enjoyment of the activity itself?
Does your child prefer socializing online over face-to-face interactions?
Do you avoid setting screen time limits because you fear your child’s reaction, you’re too exhausted, or because you’d feel guilty doing so?
Do you avoid spending time with your child because you predict it won’t be enjoyable or because you harbor negative feelings toward your child?
Quiz Scoring:
Overall points: Count the number of checked boxes/items endorsed. Needless to say, the more questions that resonate with your family’s situation the higher the likelihood that screen time is affecting your child’s nervous system—ESS. At the same time, a higher score reflects risk for tech addiction—even if the amount of screen time is “average” or even less than your child’s peers.
1-5 points: Some risk for ESS. Your child has some difficulties whose primary underlying cause may or may not be related to screen use. However, all mental health, learning and behavior issues will improve when screen time is properly addressed. This is similar to how restoring sleep tends to have a panacea-like effect on mental conditions across the board.
5-12 points: Moderate risk for ESS. Your child has some significant difficulties, likely in more than one area (school, home or in relationships). There’s a good chance that your child may remain “stuck” or see limited improvements if ESS and screen time are not addressed. On the other hand, if you’re catching ESS early and aren’t too stressed yourself, now would a good time to nip it in the bud.
13 or more:High risk for ESS. If you’ve answered “yes” to more than half the questions above, it is highly likely your child has Electronic Screen Syndrome and may also be at risk for technology addiction. Many, many families fall into this category. You may feel you’re in crisis mode, all the time. Fear not—being in this state can be highly motivating, and you’re likely to see more dramatic and even “life-changing” benefits when ESS is reversed.
Specific problematic areas:
In contrast to the overall score, this section can help flesh out specific challenges your child may be experiencing. In turn, this can help you choose areas in which to track progress if you decide to try the screen fasting protocol.
Hyperarousal/overstimulation: Virtually all these questions relate directly or indirectly to hyperarousal, but in regards to physiological arousal look to items 1-7, 10, 16-18, and 22.
Mood dysregulation: Items 9, 11, 13, 17 and 22.
Cognition/focus: Items 4, 11-15, 17 and 19.
Behavior/social skills: Items 4, 7, 10, 20, 22 and 23.
Attachment: Items 7, 9, 10, 20, 21, 24 and 25.
Addiction: Items 5, 8, 9, 11, 12, 20, and 21, 23 and 24.
Misdiagnosis: Items 12-15, and 19. Since ESS can mimic or exacerbate psychiatric disorders, its presence is commonly missed. The presence of ESS doesn’t rule out other underlying conditions, but it will virtually always make them worse. Further, when ESS is left untreated the underlying disorders become harder (if not impossible) to address.
Electronic Screen Syndrome characteristics
In general, ESS is marked by high levels of arousal (hyperarousal, or being “revved up”) and an inability to regulate emotions and stress levels (dysregulation).
Symptoms vary and can mimic virtually any psychiatric or learning disorder and many neurological disorders. However, a classic presentation of ESS is irritable mood, poor focus or disorganization, low frustration tolerance, and problematic behaviors such as argumentativeness or poor eye contact. Depressed or anxious mood is also common.
You might notice that the quiz questions above cover a wide variety of dysfunction, but they all represent scenarios that can occur when a child starts operating from a more primitive part of the brain—which is what happens when children get more screen time than the nervous system can handle.
Now what?
The presence of ESS is good news—because whenever we can identify a culprit, we can point to an avenue of treatment. (Compare this to going in circles because you don’t know what’s going on and you’re wasting time/energy/money trying to figure it all out.)
Importantly, it doesn’t matter if there are underlying diagnoses or stressors contributing to the child’s symptoms; indeed these factors only make the child more vulnerable to overstimulation. And though screens may seem so ubiquitous that they’re impossible to control, the truth is that with education, support, and a concrete plan, parents can take back control, turn ESS around, and boost quality of life for not just your child but the entire family.
Screen fasting provides relief and clarity, and helps form new habits
The keys to success lie in grasping the physiology and dynamics behind screens and the nervous system as well as understanding how to systematically reset and resynchronize a child’s brain. This is achieved with a strict, extended electronic fast (aka a tech fast or screen fast) of at least three weeks’ (sometimes longer) duration.
Though the thought of this might seem overwhelming, most parents find the fast easier than they imagined it would be. Once the child’s nervous system is reset to its natural baseline, parents can either continue being (mostly) screen-free, or they can methodically determine how much screen time the child can tolerate without triggering symptoms or dysfunction.
Why not just cut back, you ask? Because screen exposure has potent biological effects including overactivation of the brain’s reward pathways, desynchronization of the body clock, sensory overload, release of stress hormones, and electrical excitability. These systems tend to stay in a disorganized state without complete removal of the offending agents. Removing screen stimulation allows the brain to get deep rest, resynchronize the clock, rebalance brain chemistry and hormones, quiet overactive pathways, and restore mental energy.
At the same time, the child’s play changes naturally, to being more physical, social, and creative. Instead of being bombarded by electronic stimulation while “waiting for the next fix” in between screen sessions, the child forms new habits and new routines, for example going directly outside after school, and reading or wanting to be read to in the evenings. Family dynamics change too, as members talk more, listen better, make more eye contact, and even laugh and smile more.
In short, recognizing and addressing overstimulation and ESS from screen time can have a profound impact on mood, focus, and behavior in children, teens—and even young adults—in a matter of weeks, while restoring peace and harmony in the home.
Victoria L. Dunckley, M.D. is an integrative child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist, the author of Reset Your Child’s Brain, and an expert on the effects of screen-time on the developing nervous system.
