Testimonials & Case Studies
Learn how screen fasting can change your child’s life
Following are testimonials gathered over the years from families who have implemented the Reset Program, also known as screen fasting, tech or electronic fasting, for 3 to 4 weeks minimum; many did it for much longer. Click specific categories, or search on conditions or diagnoses relevant to your child (ADHD, autism, depression, anxiety, tics, psychosis, delays), symptoms (tantrums, rages, self harming, poor focus, etc), or dysfunction. I’ll be adding testimonials continually, including results from families who followed the Reset guidelines longer term, so stay tuned!
NB, mom of 3 in Wisconsin
3 children, 1 with ADHD: Reset /screen fast experience
3 children, 1 with ADHD: Reset /screen fast experience
NB, mom of 3 in Wisconsin
Mom of 3, Amazon reviewer
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If you are reading reviews on this book, “Reset Your Child’s Brain”, then you are probably wondering why your kids are acting like aliens who have come down and invaded...
Get the best version of your child back
If you are reading reviews on this book, “Reset Your Child’s Brain”, then you are probably wondering why your kids are acting like aliens who have come down and invaded your child brain and turned them into difficult, moody, and depressed shells of themselves. PLEASE, do yourself and your child a favor by reading this book. You will have to put some work in as a parent and help guide your child through this process, but the end result will be beyond worth it.
I have 3 boys. Each effected differently by screen time. My youngest, was most effected. He is 11 and has always struggled with a pinch of depression, a pinch of OCD, and a little anxiety. Over the last year of so, it has gotten worse. I was ready to medicate him. After years of therapy and searching for the right tools to give him to help him with these issues, I found myself exhausted and out of ideas. He was so scattered at school. He wasn’t organized and had trouble concentrating in school, yet had no true symptoms of ADHD. His meltdowns were taxing on me and I would hold my breath every morning until I could get him to school. He often would try to stay home, crying, saying was having anxiety about school because he felt so behind and lost. When he would go to school, I would often have calls from the nurse. It was exhausting. While waiting to see a doctor who could prescribe, I came across an article by Victoria Dunckley. It was like she wrote it for us. I decided to give the book a read. IT CHANGED OUR LIFE.
My boys use to spend their weekends yelling and fighting over a certain popular video game that was literally RUINING OUR FAMILY. All they cared about was spending money on worthless online virtual weapons and skins… they would relentlessly ask me for money for this BS! I was hoping it was a fad and go away, but it doesn’t.
After reading this book, my husband and immediately did the reset. The consoles will NEVER be back in our home. The YouTube watching of video games, GONE. The phone (Gone for the little one), iPad, computers are now heavily monitored.
YES, it was hard for the first 3 weeks, then it gets easier. You have to do this when you can dedicate time and energy to your child. YOU are the one who can help your child “detox” and it will be worth EVERYTHING you go through to get there. We are 3 months into this now and my kids don’t even ask for video games. They could care less. My youngest no longer has meltdowns. He is noticeably happier and reading books like crazy. He plays outside unprompted. His teacher told me he has made a “vast improvement”. He will tell you himself how good he feels. The “depression” has vanished. He is sleeping like he has never slept before, waking up rested, no more night terrors. I could go on and on.
The science behind this book is ASTONISHING and something that every parent, counselor and educator should read.
You will get results from this book in one way or another. Find a friend to do this with, it could help you and your child to have someone else doing this at the same time. You will no longer have to yell at your kids to “finish your turn” or “put your phone away at dinner” or “20 more minutes”!
In fact, if you don’t do the reset you will spend more energy policing these games and screen time than you will if you just put the time in to do the reset.
Thank you Dr. Dunckley. My family is forever grateful for this book and your message. I feel like I have the best version of my boys back and I never ended up medicating. The answer was right there. MOOD DISORDERS ARE EXACERBATED BY SCREEN TIME!
Ok, I’ll stop now. Buy the book, or listen to the audio, or both!
Mom of 3, Amazon reviewer
Amazon Reviewer, MzB, mom of 2 boys
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Reset Your Child’s Brain has transformed my children in ways I couldn’t have even imagined four weeks ago. I am embarrassed to say that my 3 and 7 year old...
Buy this book!
Reset Your Child’s Brain has transformed my children in ways I couldn’t have even imagined four weeks ago. I am embarrassed to say that my 3 and 7 year old boys were playing the iPad up to 10 hours a day (they each had their own. I can’t even believe that, but they did). I had suspected for some time that the iPad was particularly disruptive to my 3 year old, but I truly didn’t think I could ‘survive’ without the quiet that the tablets provided. How would I get anything done? What would the kids DO with all that time? After googling ‘is the iPad bad for kids’ and stumbling upon Dr. Dunckley’s website and book, I made the decision then and there to take it away. We actually started the fast before I was able to read the book! The results have been dramatic with my 3 year old.
We went from:
– 3-5 meltdowns a day
– struggling with transitions between activities (putting the iPad down to eat, bathe, leave the house, go to bed, etc),
– aggression towards his 1 year old brother,
– and just general instability in his personality (constantly walking on eggshells around him)
to a child who:
– has 1 meltdown or less per day (he routinely has days without meltdowns and it’s MUCH more mild when it does happen),
– transitions are no longer an issue and do not cause meltdowns
– he plays gently and enthusiastically with his younger brother; he even asks if he can hold the baby now!
– his personality is so much more even keeled; small things no longer set him off or trigger meltdowns
My 7 year old used to routinely complain how BORED he was (after he had watched every video he was remotely interested in on YouTube). I would say “You have a room full of toys your never play with. Go find something.” and he would respond with how boring ALL his toys were and there was nothing fun to do. He now plays enthusiastically with his toys, pretending with everything from Star Wars to building with blocks, to drawing (without using the iPad to think of things to draw). We now have a stash of board games to play in the evenings rather than stare at screens and I’ve found that I absolutely TREASURE the extra time I spend engaged with them. It sounds sappy, but it’s true. I was so worried that taking the iPads away would mean so much more work for me, finding things to keep them occupied and it first, it was more work. But 4 weeks in, they now find their own activities to keep them busy and entertained. I can’t believe what a complete turnaround it’s been for us. This book was a lifesaver for my family.
Amazon Reviewer, MzB, mom of 2 boys
Mom from Chile, via email
2 year old boy with possible ASD starts speaking
Dear Dr. Victoria,
I am just finishing your book and I would like to tell you that your book changed my life. That´s how I feel after reading it.
My little boy...
2 year old boy with possible ASD starts speaking
Dear Dr. Victoria,
I am just finishing your book and I would like to tell you that your book changed my life. That´s how I feel after reading it.
My little boy Martin, less than 2 years old was diagnosed last May with sensorial deficiency syndrome and one of doctor´s advice was not screens at all.
Sadly Martin watched too much TV. No Ipad or smartphones but a lot of TV. This excess of TV started to make him eat. Watching TV was the only way we found to open his mouth without any drama. So we made the terrible mistake of exposing too early and too much to the TV cartoons, specially Baby TV.
Well after only 2 weeks of zero TV (nothing at all) Martin was a new boy. It was as if TV was kidnapping him.
Before the Reset I thought Martin could have some autism or deafness. He did not make almost visual contact with me. He did not hear birds or planes. He was a little bit hyper while playing. He did not chew solids at all (even cookies), he almost did not smile. He fall too much while walking, running or playing. It was heart breaking.
And just after 2 weeks of the Reset my child was starting to change.
We are 3 people in my house that saw this change and we all say that it was a miracle.
To mention the most radical change he started to eat by himself suddenly.
Of course we are still in therapy due to the sensory syndrome but at least I am sure that my boy does not have autism.
I saw his teeth for the first time because he started to smile
We have not watched TV in our house for more than 3 months today.
I am not understood sometimes for all my mom friends but I try to create some awareness with my experience.
I was doing the Reset already when I received your book but was your book that gave me all the understanding about the Reset. I am very very very thankful. Your book has changed our life forever.
I do not know if Martin will be able to see TV again. That is not our worry yet. We are focused to revert the damage.
Thank you doctor for your great job with children.
I wish I could have the time in the future to create more awareness about TV and screens damage in infant and toddlers. Your book and its information will be on the hands of first time moms.
Regards,
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*Name withheld to protect privacy